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About Find Femmes:
Find Femmes is a dating site aimed at feminine identified LGBTQ women, aka femmes/ lipstick lesbians. It can be hard to find love, and a community, when you’re a femme, and we’re here to help!

Whether you're looking for friendship or love; whether you’re a femme into femmes, or simply just a woman into femmes- this is a place where you can finally meet, seek and be found.
Where is “Find Femmes” available?
Find Femmes Hawaii is the first American state to receive it's specific website as we want to help you find your 'Aloher'! We're available in the USA, UK, Australia, New Zealand, Canada, South Africa, and Ireland.You will only be able to message LGBTQ women within the Hawaiian islands.
Conquering long distance between countries is very difficult, so we hope you can find friendship/love nearby! If you do wish to seek love or friendship in USA then click the top left button to take you to the mainland.
FAQ'S: What does ‘femme’ mean?
Whether you love your lipstick and Louboutin heels, or lipbalm and loafers; it’s up to you as to how you define and if you feel this is the right dating spot for you.

What if I’m not femme but I like femmes? You’re more than welcome to sign up too, the more the merrier! We know that not every femme is also into femmes, and that there's a whole spectrum within the LGBTQ community. We just want to help as many people find love.
Can I join if I’m just looking for friendship?
Yes, certainly! There’s many of us out there who haven’t met many other femmes and we know how important it is to feel like you belong. #femmeship
Wegan’s thoughts
Why we love Hawaii...
Say Aloher to love!
We are Whitney & Megan, AKA Wegan. We managed to find love online and hope to help you find the same!
After chatting online, we met in London 2008, when Whitney was studying abroad from University of Hawaii. We embarked on long distance between Hawaii and the UK. We got to spend many special moments in Hawaii, including getting engaged on Waimanalo Beach! (Megan popped the question, Whitney said yes!) Hawaii will always hold a special place in our hearts. We put our lives out there as a couple to fill the gap of lesbian role models and to show that you can be feminine and a lesbian. We hope we can help you find your 'Aloher'!